Christmas Bundles of Joy

Thursday, December 22, 2005
I’m sitting here watching the evening newsand I just heard story about two beautiful bundles of joy!





These beautiful babies were discovered at a church in Chicago by one of its custodial workers. In the church's entranceway, the worker saw a car seat with a newborn baby stirring inside sitting next to an electric heater on the wall. When he moved blankets to get a closer look, he got his second shock of the morning. Sleeping next to the baby was a twin.

The police say newborn fraternal twins found abandoned were just hours old.The babies' umbilical cords were even still attached when they were hospitalized in good condition. The hospital’s ER staff the gave them names to fit the Christmas season --Mary and Joseph.

Illinois Department of Children and Family Services is investigating the discovery as a neglect case because the Illinois' Abandoned Newborn Protection Act allows mothers to legally leave an infant at a staffed police station, firehouse, hospital or emergency medical facility. Churches do not qualify under the state's safe haven law so police are seeking the mother. They said that she may be charged with some sort of abandonment/neglect crime.

My Take On It …..

I know that some may not agree with me, but I just don’t think that this is right. This mother is probably young and poor. I’m sure she did not know that you could not leave your baby at a church under the Safe Haven Law, hell neither did I.

It’s not like she meant to cause these children any harm. In my heart I know that she was trying to do the right thing. Think of all of the mothers that have dumped their babies in garbage cans, rivers, and in the woods. She took those babies somewhere safe. Somewhere that she knew that would be found and that they could be care for.

Some lucky person(s) will be so happy and thankful to adopt these babies. I almost want them myself. I think that the authorities need to spend more time trying make sure that these babies are placed with a good family and go out a try to solve other unresolved crimes in the area. In a city as large as Chicago, I know that there is a lot more that they can be doing than wasting resources on a mom that made the RIGHT decision for her, which was not to keep her babies, but just went about it the WRONG way.

What do you think?

This is Superstar Nic

"N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!


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posted by Superstar Nic at 6:53 PM, |

24 Comments:

My problem is that she didn't hand them off to someone or made sure that they were going to be ok when she left them. What if no one was at the church for a couple of days? Those precious babies would be dead. Perhaps the mother thought churches were included. Thank GOD they survived.
I was under the assumption you could leave children at the churches. I know you can do it at fire stations and of course hospitals.

I agree with you. Whomever the mother is was most likely trying to do the right thing but just didn't know that the church wasn't a legal place she could leave them.

I can only imagine how hard it is for a sober mother to give birth and leave them. Once I first layed eyes on my baby I was hooked on her.

Stories like this are soooo sad and they are pretty black children! People are quick to adopt arm babies so they will have a home very soon.
I hate hearing about things like this...but I am glad the babies are okay...:)
I am glad they are fine to. They are jut beautiful.

@ Shawn - Maybe she did think churches were included. Plus alot of churches have services every day during the week of Christmas so maybe thats why she did it.

I honestly think that she was just trying to do what she thought was best at the time.
i agree with you Nic. though i think a hispital would have been better. it sounds like she didn't know she was having twins and realized she couldn't take care of 2 considering she had a car seat. po' thang. she was prolly scared shitless when a second baby came.
I'm glad the kids are okay. I hope she doesn't turn around in a few days and decide she wants them back.
If she comes forward and decides to try to get the kids back she is going to be in alot of trouble!!

I hope she doesn't change her mind to, because she will be in for a very rude awakening.
  At 12/23/2005 12:14 AM Anonymous Anonymous said:
I agree with you but I am curious to know how she was pregnant with twins and was able to get rid of them without anyone knowing? Those appear to be very healthy babies so it looks like it was a full term pregnancy. I would think she was showing pretty well with twins even if it was a first pregnancy. Someone has to know about her.
I'm happy the babies are okay. That's what important. There are far too many reports of such occurences ending tragically.

I can't hate on the mother, who was young and poor. I'm sure there is a story behind what happened. No telling what she was up against, etc.
My heart is hurt readding this but I am with you...probably young sista girl confused and all. At least she had these babies. She didn't abort them! And even had a heater there...she was concerned. Probably couldn't aford an adoption lawyer. At least these babies weren't in the dumpster!

I swear the law picks the dumbest things to get in hissy fit about....a church is a safe haven!
I am glad the babies are ok. The police should waste man power trying to find a mother who left her children near a heater at a church. The babies are fine and that is what is important. She probably didn't want to leave them at a police station, firehouse or hospital because there are camera at all those places and they would have found her anyway or someone would have tried to convince her to keep the children she could do anything for. So, the best thing was done. And now a family who has been waiting on some babies to love and care for will have children in the New Year!
I thought that they had a law, if you drop off the baby they don't question you. Thankfully they didn't end up in a dumpster. Some one will want them. They're too precious!
I agree with you. There are too many kids being beaten and screamed at (I see it everyday where I live) because their parents didn't *really* want them. At least these kids will have a chance, leave the mother alone. I think more "parents" should do this.

Like yesterday (sorry to go off), I was at Rite-Aid with my hubby and son, and this little boy wanted candy (he couldn't have been more than a year-16 months old), and his mother was screaming at him, and I guess he got scred, and ran out of the store (away from her) with the candy.

She gripped him up by the collar of his coat, and was like "didn't I fucking tell you not to leave the damn store? What the fuck is wrong with you?" And she threw him on the floor. No exaggeration, I see this stuff just about everyday.

They feel as if they are entitled to do this to their children beause they 'own' them. I was going to do a post about it, but I didn't want to seem 'racist', so I decided against it.

I worry about the future of America...
Holiday Best to you mama! Do it up down in the ATL!
  At 12/23/2005 11:15 AM Anonymous Anonymous said:
I am just so thankful they were found alive and healthy!! Leave the Mother alone and let the kids go to some couple that wants children that would be good parents. I will take them and raise them!!!
I'm glad they were found safe and healthy. I just pray that they find a loving home that will take BOTH of them together.
the mother left the children in the hands of GOD. all of those other safe havens subject the mother to the judgement of man. GOD should be her judge.
also, merry christmas fellow rattler.
Wow what a story. Im just grateful those babies were abandoned at a church! Your absolutely right... I mean she could of left them for dead in some cold alley... on a pile of rocks or dumpster. Atleast she did have the heart to leave them some place she KNEW people would find them...

And to have them bundled up.

I dont know the details of adoption... but isnt it free for a mother to give up their child for adoption? Or does it cost them to go through all that? I figured it be free for the Mom... and only cost the couple adopting the child...
I may be wrong.

Ive been to orphanages in the Dominican Republic... babies left for dead on the streets... found barely living... so sad.

I hope we can adopt a child one day :-) We will see!
Oh and most churches if its a good sized one is checked out daily... atleast our church is. our Pastor or my hubby (associate pastor) drives by and checks things out almost every day. Just to make sure nothing fishy is going on.

Although around the holidays a day might pass that we dont go check around.

Thankfully those babies were found. Hospital or Police station may have been a better place now that I think about it...
merry christmas!
When you are scared you may make some poor decisions. But she found a place where she believed they would be the safest, at church. She shouldn't be punished. The law was not clear enough plus she probably is so young she probably never even heard of the law. She did what she knew, the church....
  At 12/27/2005 7:59 AM Anonymous Anonymous said:
Massachusetts passed our Baby Safe Haven law late last year, and then thankfully went on a public relations campaign to get the word out.
2005 will be the first year in almost 20 where a newborn baby hasn't been abandoned in Massachusetts, thankfully.
In the four years prior to passing our law 13 babies were abandoned and 6 of them died, 4 were found close to death and three were brought to safe places similar to a safe haven law.
Knowledge of the law before a crisis is the most important thing in Baby Safe Haven laws.
That is such a sad story. I feel the mother did the right thing. One article said the babies had been fed and were wearing fresh diapers, so they weren't laying there for hours. In fact, I think she was watching and waiting for the Church doors to open.

There's always a couple who are so deserving, but can't have children. Momma may have just blessed someone through her actions.