Make a list and check it twice: Part II

Monday, July 31, 2006

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My girl Laptop Cutie sent this to me yesterday and I thought this shit was hilarious. Everytime I read it I cant help but laugh. Enjoy!


This pre-booty call agreement (hereinafter referred to as the "Agreement") is entered into on the _____day of__________, 200___, by_______________________, between ___________________ and _______________________.

THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES:

1. No sleeping over - unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning.

2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening.

3. No calls before 9 PM - we don't have shit to talk about.

4. None of that "lovemaking" shit - only sex allowed.

5. No emotional discussions (i.e. Where are we heading with this? Do you love me?) The answer is no, so don't ask.

6. No plans made in advance - that is why you are called the "backup," unless you are from out-of-town, then it's only a one-time advanced arrangement.

7. All gifts accepted - money is always good.

8. No baby talk - however, dirty talk is encouraged.

9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers - it's really none of your damn business.

10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" we are not friends, just fuck buddies.

11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK - don't be offended.

12. No extra clothing - I don't want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.

13. No falling asleep right after sex - it's over, so get your ass up, get dressed, and go the fuck home.

14. Don't be offended if I don't ask if you enjoyed it - I don't care.

15. You cannot borrow my car for any reason.

16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard response will be: "My roommate's girlfriend/boyfriend."

17. Doggie style is the preferred position - the reason is less eye contact the better.

18. NO condoms, NO fucking. Carry your ass home.

19. Bring your own drink - I am not your liquor store.

20. No phone use, please - don't want anyone calling back looking for your ass.

21. If going to a hotel room, we either split the cost, or alternate who's paying...you pay this time, I pay next.

22. Don't bring any of your friends with you, unless they're going to join the party.




List #2: The Ten "Very Importants"

Last week I began a post called Make a list and check it twice. In part one of the post, I talked about The Six Must Haves in a relationship. Just to recap, your "musts" are the deal breakers -- you know what they are. If you wouldnt break up with someone because of it, its not a "must."

The second part of this post discusses the Ten Very Importants. The ten very importants are exactly that, they are very important to you but not necessarily deal-breakers. It may be very important that she own a house, for example. But if she fits almost all your other criteria and is currently renting an apartment, you might be able to overlook the fact that shes not a homeowner. Or it may be very important that he has a college degree. But if he is highly articulate, well-read, and educated, it may not matter that he doesnt have a BA.


Here are my ten in no particular order:

1. Well Groomed - This includes everything from clothes hygiene. NO BODY ODORS PLZ!!!

2. Ambition - Have a dream and stick with it. Never give up on your goals. Im a firm believer that it is never to late to go after and achieve your dreams.

3. Positive Attitude - I cannot express enough how much a negative attitude is a turn off for me. Im negative enough by myself I cannot have someone that is more negative than I am. Its all about balance. I need someone that will uplift me not bring me down. I know that everyone has a bad day every now and then, but I have met people that are just always in a foul mood or always have something negative to say.

4. Faith in God - This also includes the belief that God truly does exist. You would be surprised how many men I have met that do not believe it God. We would have too much conflict and the relationship would never work. We could always be friends, but we can be in a relationship.

5. Health Conscious - My health is very important to me and I want someone that is concerned about his health and personal well being. That does not take unnecessary risks.

6. Attractive - Now when I say attractive dont get me wrong. I do not mean pretty boy attractive, but more so having that little something that makes me wanna give it to him, ya know what I mean? There has to be some physical attraction going on.

7. Flexibility - He should be willing to comprise and adapt to new and different situations if things do not go according to plans.

8. Respectful - This is self explanatory, but just respect for me, but for himself and others.

9. Character - This encompasses integrity, reliability, and just an all around good personality.

10. Fun - Im sorry but I dont want an uptight, stick in the mud. I love to have fun and its important to me that I be with someone that wants and needs to fun to. Life is so stressful, everyone need to let their hair down and have a little fun every now and then right? I know I do!


What things fall on your list of very importants?


This is Superstar Nic

Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"
 
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Whatz Up Bloggers?!?!

Sunday, July 30, 2006

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Whatz up out there in the blogosphere?!?!?!

Things are going pretty good with me. I have absolutely no complaints. Well, that is with the exception of not wanting to go to work, but whats new.

It seems like my time has going shorter and shorter and less and less here lately. Everything is being neglected, including the blog. My sister mentioned to me that anyone or anything that could tame me off the internet would be a miracle.

I think that I have found that miracle...




TIP OF THE DAY: Before you have sex in the car, watch out for the CAMERA NINJAS!










This is Superstar Nic

Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
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Make a list and check it twice: Part I

Tuesday, July 25, 2006



I went to have my nails done on Monday and they were taking forever. Anyway, while I was waiting I began to read one the womenz magazines they had on the table. While reading, I came across an article that was talking about relationships and how you can know when you were ready to be in a new relationship or get out of an old relationship among other things.

I thought this was a very interesting article since I have been questioning whether or not I was ready to be in a new relationship myself. At any rate, the part of this article that I wanted to blog about has to do with really soul searching and making sure that you really know what you want. You wouldnt believe how many people dont even really know what they want in a relationship. Do you know what you want?

When I read this I decided that I would use this blog as a way to conceptualize my feelings about just what it is that I want. In my next series of posts I will talk about the following lists the author.


  1. List #1: The Ten "Must Haves"
  2. List #2: The Ten "Very Importants"
  3. List #3: The Six "Must Nots"
  4. List #4: Unlimited "Wouldn't It Be Nice If...."
  5. List #5: Envisioning Five Scenarios



List #1: The Six "Must Haves"

Your "musts" are the deal breakers -- you know what they are. If you wouldn't break up with someone because of it, it's not a "must." Your "musts" are the key when you're out there meeting people and finding out about them. Knowing your "musts" will keep you from getting trapped into thinking, "It doesn't matter," "He'll change," or "She'll be different with me." "Musts" come from a heartfelt place of knowing and trusting yourself. It's important to list six of them -- no more and no less. Six is a reasonable number that a person can be expected to live up to, without being overly picky or not discerning enough. More than six, and you may be scared. Less than six and you might not be taking care of yourself. Once you have written down your six "musts," love yourself enough to stick with them!

The bottom line is this: Steer clear of people who don't have all your "musts" no matter how attractive you find them. It is an act of self-love to refuse to see someone again who will eventually break your heart. Don't wait six months, get really attached, then break up. Save yourself the time and the heartache.

My Musts are:

1. Honesty - I hate a liar, especially one that can look me in my eyes and lie to my face!

2. Trustworthy - I must be able to trust him. In my previous relationship I had come to the point where I could no longer trust my boyfriend.

3. Job - He must have a job!!! Notice I did not say what type of job he has to have, ONLY that he must have a job. (Legal Employment Only Please).

4. Sense of Humor - I love to laugh and I want us to laugh together.

5. Sex Appeal - Sex is not at the VERY TOP of the list but I do feel like it is an important part of a healthy relationship. In this catergory also comes affection. I am an affectionate person, so I want a man that will be affectionate as well and show me all of the attention that I need.

6. Communication - If we cant talk about things the entire relationship falls apart.

What are your six must haves?

My next post will be about List #2: The Ten "Very Importants". The ten "very importants" are exactly that, they are very important to you but not necessarily deal-breakers. We will talk more about that in the next post.


This is Superstar Nic

Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
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Random Question of the Day

Monday, July 24, 2006

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Whatz the deal bloggers?

How is everyone? I hope that you all had a wonderful weekend. As for me, I had a great weekend. It was one of the best that I have had in a VERY long time.

I really havent had a whole lot of time to blog, so plz forgive me for not visiting as often and skimping on the posts (like today for example).

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We damn sho do!


Random Question of the Day

I have a quick question for you all. I was wondering about just why it is that most if not all black people believe that a male child under the age of one should not have his hair cut, so the random question for today is:


What is the superstition behind not cutting yout baby boy's hair before he turns a year old?






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Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
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The Four Agreeements

Wednesday, July 19, 2006



A coworker of mine and I were talking yesterday. I cant really remember what we were talking about exactly but know that it was on the subject of relationships. She asked me if I had every read any of Miguel Ruiz"s books and I said to her no, I am not familiar with him. She mention to me that she had one of his books at home and that she thought that I should read it, but she had a paper that talked about some of his teachings.

I went with her back to her office and she gave the paper to me. This paper talked about his teachings as written in his book The Four Agreements.

The author feels that everything we do is based on agreements we have made at some point in our lives, whether it be with ourselves, with others, with God, or with life. But although we make those agreements, the most important agreements are the ones we make with ourselves. In these agreements we tell ourselves who we are, how to behave, what is possible, what is impossible, etc. One single agreement is not such a big problem, but we have many agreements that come from fear, isolation, deplete our energy, and diminish our self-worth.

In this book, The Four Agreements, the author reveals the source of these self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and cause us to create needless suffering for ourselves. When we are ready to change these previously made agreements, there are four deceptively simple, yet powerful agreements that we can adopt as guiding principles.

These Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can quickly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.


The Four Agreements

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Dont Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you wont be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

I am definitely guilty of having self-limiting believes. Im not sure where these beliefs came from or when they all started but I do know that I have felt like that for a very long time. Looking at these four agreements I have to say that the things that I do, say, and believe have been completely opposite of these teachings for the most part.

I have spoken words to put myself down on many occasions. Number two says not to take things personally and lawd knows that I always do! When something goes wrong or if someone does something to hurt me, why do I have to automatically assume that its because of something that I did, when the reality of the situation is that this is simply not truly. Well at least not in all cases.

As for making assumptions, as mentioned in number 3, I am always making assumptions and unfortunately more often that not, I assume the worst. Lastly, as for number four, I cannot even honestly say that always try my best. Shoot I cant even say that I try my best most of the time. I mainly just do what I gotta do to get by. I know thats a shame!


What agreements have you made with yourself? Do you think that any of them are self-limiting?

What do you think about this authors philosophy?






This is Superstar Nic

Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
posted by Superstar Nic at 11:11 PM, | 8 comments

Nothing Special

Tuesday, July 18, 2006




Whatz up bloggers!?!?!

Not too much going on with me. I really didnt have anything special to blog about today but I did wanna be sure to wish everyone a wonderful day.

I have been going thru a lot (emotionally) here lately and I have so much on my mind that I cant even think straight. I swear if it aint one thing its another. I mean really!

Last week it was getting to the point where my worrying was affecting my eating habits. I mean just wasnt hungry. My appetite is getting back to normal somewhat, but I still got alot on my mind. Why cant I just forget about it and let shit go?


Anyhoo, you all have a great day! The week is half way over thank goodness. I cant wait till Friday...is that a surprise to anyone?






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This is Superstar Nic

"N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
posted by Superstar Nic at 11:14 PM, | 5 comments

More Useless Information About Me

Monday, July 17, 2006




This is a meme I stole from Stiltwalker! I honestly feel like doing memes like this gives others an opportunity to get to know me better, dont you? Anyhoo, here it goes...



Entertainment

Films: The Mummy, The Mummy Returns, The Prince of Egypt, Friday After Next, Kiss the Girls, The Gospel, Meet the Parents, Love and Basketball, The Day After Tomorrow, Face Off, The Family Man, Guess Who?, Ever After

TV Shows: Law and Order, Medium, Monk, The 4400, Desperate Housewives, Greys Anatomy, The Closer, CSI, Cold Case Files, Entertainment Gossip Shows, House, American Idol, Ghost Whisperer, Nancy Grace, Dr. 90210, Nip/Tuck.

Actors: John Travolta, Nicholas Cage, Kevin Spacey, Vince Vaughn, Leonardo Dicaprio, Mark Walberg, Owen Wilson

Actresses: Gweneth Paltrow, Angelina Jolie

Bands: Cant think of anything off the top of my head

Hobbies: Collecting DVDs, shopping, surfing the net, drawing

Sports to Play: None

Sports Teams: Tampa Bay Buccs, Jacksonville Jags

Outdoor Activities: Absolutely nothing! I really do not like being outdoors. Well does driving count? Jus kiddin

Music: I love Gospel especially Fred Hammond. I also enjoy listening to rap, RnB, some, and pop.


Eating

Cereals: I really dont eat much cereal, but when I do I eat oatmeal, Chex, Raisin Branch Crunch, Lucky Charms, Frosted Mini Wheats, stuff like that

Snacks: Cashews, Spicy or Southwestern style trail mix with like nuts, sesame sticks, and corn nuts, granola, chips, cheese, cookies. Shoot most anything really.

Cookies: Oatmeal raisin and peanut butter

Candy Bars: Twix, Nestle Crunch, Hersheys with almonds

Alcoholic Drinks: Wine, Bahama Mama, Blue Hawaiian

Non-Alcoholic: Coffee and lots of it, crystal light fruit punch, diet sodas, water

Quick Meals: Throw a chicken breast, steak, or pork chop on the George Foreman and hook up some premade salad in a bag.

Hefty Meals: Oxtails of course, spaghetti, lasagna, rice and gravy, roast with potatoes, cabbabge, cornbread, greens, all kinds of casseroles. Shit every damn thing! LOL


Family & Personal

Mother name: Deborah

Father name: Edward

Brothers: 0

Sisters: 5

Family Holiday: Christmas and Thanksgiving, we always try to get together on these holidays if we are able to. It usually works out that we can be together and we have a lot of fun. I cant wait till the holidays roll aroung this year.

Family Feud: None, well I take that back. We will stand for no dead beat husbands in a family of six girls.

Kids: Not yet, but maybe someday. I love kids , I really do.

Spouse: Still search and currently accepting applications.

Pets: None

Dwelling: 3 bedroom, 2 bath apartment in the heart of the city and too damn far away from my job

Car: Sonata

Shoe Size: 8.5

College GPA: 4.0, yes you read that correctly. I do have a 4.0 in my PhD program.

Occupation: Program Evaluator which entails survey/questionnaire development, literature reviews, report writing, grant writing, and attending way too many damn meetings!

Fictional Character: Dr. Burke from Greys Anatomy. Yummy!

Hate: Liars

Love: sleeping

Vacation: Anywhere including in my very own bed

Honeymoon: Anywhere with my lover

Likes: Sex, good food, music, drawing, alcohol, sleeping, shopping, candles, being in love, traveling, spending time with those I love.

Dislikes: Phone calls while I am eating or sleeping, traffic, hot weather, meeting requests (especially at 8am or after 3:30pm), spam email, those damn pop ups, the alarm clock going off, making difficult decisions, exercising, liars, school.






This is Superstar Nic

"N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
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WHAT TREE DID YOU FALL FROM?

Sunday, July 16, 2006





Whatz up bloggers!?!?

I hope that everyone had a great weekend. My weekend was pretty good. No complaints from me. If I have said it once, I have said it a million times, any time I dont have to go to work its a good day.

On Friday I hooked up with my new friend. All I can do is smile. We were originally supposed to go to the movies, but we decided not to go. We just stayed in and watched some movies and ordered take out. I just enjoyed spending some time with him and trying to get to know him better. He has expressed to me how much he really likes me and I can tell because it truly shows. The thing about it is I am jus trying to take my time to get to know him. I am not rushing anything. I am freshly out of a relationship, but I will have to save that story for another time. I have truly been struggling over here with the decision I had to make to end a long term relationship. But enough about that. Back to the smiles...









How Good are you at Certain Things?
Name
Age
Favorite Color
Nickname
Sex - 100%
Romance - 41%
Self - Control - 21%
Kissing - 73%
Cuddling - 86%
Kinkiness - 50%
This cool quiz by KillianO - Taken 720 Times.





WHAT TREE DID YOU FALL FROM?

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Find your birthday and then find your tree. This is really cool and somewhat accurate. Then send it to all your friends so they can find out what tree they fell from, but don't forget to change the subject line to your tree.

Dec 23 to Jan 01 - Apple Tree
Jan 01 to Jan 11 - Fir Tree
Jan 12 to Jan 24 - Elm Tree
Jan 25 to Feb 03 - Cypress Tree
Feb 04 to Feb 08 - Poplar Tree
Feb 09 to Feb 18 - Cedar Tree
Feb 19 to Feb 28 - Pine Tree
Mar 01 to Mar 10 - Weeping Willow Tree
Mar 11 to Mar 20 - Lime Tree
Mar 21 (only) -Oak Tree
Mar 22 to Mar 31 - Hazelnut Tree
Apr 01 to Apr 10 - Rowan Tree
Apr 11 to Apr 20 - Maple Tree
Apr 21 to Apr 30 - Walnut Tree
May 01 to May 14 - Poplar Tree
May 15 to May 24 - Chestnut Tree
May 2 5 to Jun 03 - Ash Tree
Jun 04 to Jun 13 - Hornbeam Tree
Jun 14 to Jun 23 - Fig Tree
Jun 24 (only) - Birch Tree
Jun 25 to Jul 04 - Apple Tree
Jul 05 to Jul 14 - Fir Tree
Jul 15 to Jul 25 - Elm Tree
Jul 26 to Aug 04 - Cypress Tree
Aug 05 to Aug 13 - Poplar Tree
Aug 14 to Aug 23 - Cedar Tree
Aug 24 to Sep 02 - Pine Tree
Sep 03 to Sep 12 - Weeping Willow Tree
Sep 13 to Sep 22 - Lime Tree
Sep 23 (only) - Olive Tree
Sep 24 to Oct 03 - Hazelnut Tree
Oct 04 to Oct 13 - Rowan Tree
Oct 14 to Oct 23 - Maple Tree
Oct 24 to Nov 11 - Walnut Tree
Nov 12 to Nov 21 - Chestnut Tree
Nov 22 to Dec 01 - Ash Tree
Dec 02 to Dec 11 - Hornbeam Tree
Dec 12 to Dec 21 - Fig Tree
Dec 22 (only) - Beech Tree


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YOUR TREE (in alphabetical order)


Apple Tree (Love) -- quiet and shy at times, lots of charm, appeal, and attraction, pleasant attitude, flirtatious smile, adventurous, sensitive, loyal in love, wants to love and be loved, faithful and tender partner, very generous, many talents, loves children, needs affectionate partner.

Ash Tree (Ambition) -- extremely attractive, vivacious, impulsive,
demanding, does not care for criticism, ambitious, intelligent, restless lover, sometimes money rules over the heart, demands attention, needs love and much emotional support.

Beech Tree (Creative) -- has good taste, concerned about its looks, materialistic, good organization of life and career, economical, good leader takes no unnecessary risks, reasonable, splendid lifetime companion, keen on keeping fit (diets, sports, etc.)

Birch Tree (Inspiration) -- vivacious, attractive, elegant, friendly,
unpretentious, modest, does not like anything in excess, abhors the vulgar, loves life in nature and in calm, not very passionate, full of imagination, little ambition, creates a calm and content atmosphere.

Cedar Tree (Confidence) -- of rare strength, knows how to adapt, likes unexpected presents, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident, a great speaker, determined, often impatient likes to impress others, has many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waits for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.

Chestnut Tree (Honesty) -- of unusual stature, impressive, well-developed sense of justice, fun to be around, a planner, born diplomat, can be irritated easily, sensitive of others feelings, hard worker, sometimes acts superior, feels not understood at times, fiercely family oriented, very loyal in love, physically fit.

Cypress Tree (Faithfulness) -- strong, muscular, adaptable, takes what life has to give but doesn't necessarily like it, strives to be content, optimistic, wants to be financially independent, wants love and affection, hates loneliness, passionate lover which cannot be satisfied, faithful, quick-tempered at times, can be unruly and careless, loves to gain knowledge needs to be needed.

Elm Tree (Noble-mindedness) -- pleasant shape, tasteful clothes, modest demands, tends not to forgive mistakes, cheerful, likes to lead but not to obey, honest and faithful partner, likes making decisions for others, noble-minded, generous, good sense of humor, practical.

Fig Tree (Sensibility) -- very strong minded, a bit self-willed honest, loyal, independent, hates contradiction or arguments, hard worker when wants to be, loves life and friends, enjoys children and animals, great sense of humor, has artistic talent and great intelligence.

Fir tree (Mysterious) -- extraordinary taste, handles stress well, loves anything beautiful, stubborn, tends to care for those close to them, hard to trust others, yet a social butterfly, likes idleness and laziness after long demanding hours at work, rather modest, talented, unselfish, many friends, very reliable.

Hazelnut Tree (Extraordinary) -- charming, sense of humor, very demanding but can also be very understanding, knows how to make a lasting impression, active fighter for social causes and politics, popular, quite moody, honest, a perfectionist, has a precise sense of judgment and expects complete fairness.

Hornbeam Tree (Good Taste) -- of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egotistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life, looks for kindness and acknowledgment in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.

Lime Tree (Doubt) - intelligent, hard working, accepts what life dishes out, but not before trying to change bad circumstances into good ones, hates fighting and stress, enjoys getaway vacations, may appear tough, but is actually soft and relenting, always willing to make sacrifices for family and friends, has many talents but not always enough time to use them, great leadership qualities, extremely loyal.

Maple Tree (Independence of Mind) -- no ordinary person, full of
imagination and originality, shy and reserved, ambitious, proud,
self-confident, hungers for new experiences, sometimes nervous, has many complexities, good memory, learns easily, complicated love life , wants to impress.

Oak Tree (Brave) -- robust nature, courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent, sensible, does not like change, keeps its feet on the ground, person of action.

Olive Tree (Wisdom) -- loves sun, warmth and kind feelings, reasonable, balanced, avoids aggression and violence, tolerant, cheerful, calm, well-developed sense of justice, sensitive, empathetic, free of jealousy, loves to read and the company of sophisticated people.

Pine Tree (Peacemaker) -- loves agreeable company, craves peace and harmony, loves to help others, active imagination, likes to write poetry, not fashion conscious, great compassion, friendly to all, falls strongly in love but will leave if betrayed or lied to, emotionally soft, low self esteem, needs affection and reassurance.

Poplar Tree (Uncertainty) -- looks very decorative, talented, not very self-confident, extremely courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, great artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously.

Rowan Tree (Sensitivity) -- full of charm, cheerful, gifted without
egotism, likes to draw attention, loves life, motion, unrest, and even complications, is both dependent and independent, good taste, extremely generous, artistic, passionate, emotional, good company, does not forgive.

Walnut Tree (Passion) -- unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egotistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromise.

Weeping Willow (Melancholy) - likes to be stress free, loves family life, full of hopes and dreams, attractive, very empathetic, loves anything beautiful, musically inclined, loves to travel to exotic places, restless, capricious, honest, can be influenced but is not easy to live with when pressured, sometimes demanding, good intuition suffers in love until they find that one loyal, steadfast partner; loves to make others laugh.




This is Superstar Nic

"N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!

"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"

 
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Sum It Up In ONE Word

Friday, July 14, 2006





Friday Meme: Summed up in ONE WORD

Another one borrowed from Organized Noise! He is always hooking me up...Thanks


YOU CAN ONLY TYPE ONE WORD!!! NO EXPLANATIONS!


Yourself: Nic

Your lover: Who?

Your hair: Weave

Your mother: Special

Your father: Handsome

Your favorite item: Love

Your dream last night: Baby

Your favorite drink: Soda

Your dream home: Huge

The room you are in: Bedroom

Your pets: None

What you are now: Sleepy

Who you want to be in 10 years: Married

What you want to be in 10 years: Rich

What you're not: Content

Your best friend: Funny

One of your wishlist items: Car

Your gender: Female

The last thing you did: Talk

What you are wearing: Tee

Your favorite weather: Cool

Your favorite book: Bible

The last thing you ate: Oxtails

Your life: Beginning

Your mood: Sad

Favorite article of clothing: Undies

Favorite color: Blue

School: No

Song: Sexy





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I cant believe she is 40! I also cant believe she posed for Playboy, but I digress. She look great tho.







This is Superstar Nic

"N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!




"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"




 
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Something Serious, Something Funny

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

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Who in the hell gets breasts this big?





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Something Serious


My girl Laptop Cutie sent this to me yesterday so I just wanted to share.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve the heck no, you can't be friends.

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think, "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has education or in a better job.

DO not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...
there is nothing cute about baggage...
deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him-he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies...You will make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


Something Funny
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ATTORNEY: What is your date of birth?
WITNESS: July 18th.
ATTORNEY: What year?
WITNESS: Every year.

ATTORNEY: What gear were you in at the moment of the impact?
WITNESS: Gucci sweats and Reeboks.

ATTORNEY: This myasthenia gravis, does it affect your memory at all?
WITNESS: Yes.
ATTORNEY: And in what ways does it affect your memory?
WITNESS: I forget.
ATTORNEY: You forget? Can you give us an example of something you forgot?

ATTORNEY: How old is your son, the one living with you?
WITNESS: Thirty-eight or thirty-five, I can't remember which.
ATTORNEY: How long has he lived with you?
WITNESS: Forty-five years.

ATTORNEY: What was the first thing your husband said to you that morning?
WITNESS: He said, "Where am I, Cathy?"
ATT ORNEY: And why did that upset you?
WITNESS: My name is Susan.

ATTORNEY: Do you know if your daughter has ever been involved in voodoo?
WITNESS: We both do.
ATTORNEY: Voodoo?
WITNESS: We do.
ATTORNEY: You do?
WITNESS: Yes, voodoo.

ATTORNEY: Now doctor, isn't it true that when a person dies in his sleep, he doesn't know about it until the next morning?
WITNESS: Did you actually pass the bar exam?

ATTORNEY: The youngest son, the twenty-year-old, how old is he?
WITNESS: Uh, he's twenty.

ATTORNEY: Were you present when your picture was taken?
WITNESS: Would you repeat the question?

ATTORNEY: So the date of conception (of the baby) was August 8th?
WITNESS: Yes.
ATTORNEY: And what were you doing at that time?
WITNESS: Uh....

ATTORNEY: She had three children, right?
WITNESS: Yes.
ATTORNEY: How many were boys?
WITNESS: None.
ATTORNEY: Were there any girls?

ATTORNEY: How was your first marriage terminated?
WITNESS: By death

ATTORNEY: And by whose death was it terminated?
ATTORNEY: Can you describe the individual?
WITNESS: He was about medium height and had a beard.
ATTORNEY: Was this a male or a female?

ATTORNEY: Is your appearance here this morning pursuant to a deposition notice which I sent to your attorney?
WITNESS: No, this is how I dress when I go to work.

ATTORNEY: Doctor, how many of your autopsies have you performed on dead people?

WITNESS: All my autopsies are performed on dead people.

ATTORNEY: ALL your responses MUST be oral, OK? What school did you go to?
WITNESS: Oral.

ATTORNEY: Do you recall the time that you examined the body?
WITNESS: The autopsy started around 8:30 pm.
ATTORNEY: And Mr. Denton was dead at the time?
WITNESS: No, he was sitting on the table wondering why I was doing an autopsy on him!

ATTORNEY: Are you qualified to give a urine sample?
WITNESS: Huh?

ATTORNEY: Doctor, before you performed the autopsy, did you check for a pulse?
WITNESS: No.
ATTORNEY: Did you check for blood pre ssure?
WITNESS: No.
ATTORNEY Did you check for breathing?
WITNESS: No.
ATTORNEY: So, then it is possible that the patient was alive when you began the autopsy?
WITNESS: No.
ATTORNEY: How can you be so sure, Doctor?
WITNESS: Because his brain was sitting on my desk in a jar.
ATTORNEY: But could the patient have still been alive, nevertheless?
WITNESS: Yes, it is possible that he could have been alive and practicing law.





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Questions about the Crossroad

Monday, July 10, 2006






Have you ever found yourself at a crossroad and you didnt know which way you should to go, you didnt know which way to turn?


Imagine that you are at the place this very moment. This crossroad is a very significant landmark for reaching your destination. Your destination is where you need and want to be in life.

What do you do when you come to that fork in the road and you dont know which what to go? How do you decide which path you should follow? Not only that, but what feelings or emotions are experienced while determining which path to take?

Once you finally made a decision, what life lessons do you learn along the way? Do these decisions ever become any easier? Any easier at all or does it remain the same?

What effect will making the wrong turn have on your ability to get to where you need to go, where you should be? Is it that once you have followed the wrong path you will never be able to find it again or is it possible to find your way back to it?



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posted by Superstar Nic at 11:53 PM, | 5 comments

Questions about the Crossroad






Have you ever found yourself at a crossroad and you didnt know which way you should to go, you didnt know which way to turn?


Imagine that you are at the place this very moment. This crossroad is a very significant landmark for reaching your destination. Your destination is where you need and want to be in life.

What do you do when you come to that fork in the road and you dont know which what to go? How do you decide which path you should follow? Not only that, but what feelings or emotions are experienced while determining which path to take?

Once you finally made a decision, what life lessons do you learn along the way? Do these decisions ever become any easier? Any easier at all or does it remain the same?

What effect will making the wrong turn have on your ability to get to where you need to go, where you should be? Is it that once you have followed the wrong path you will never be able to find it again or is it possible to find your way back to it?



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"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"
 
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Does Size Matter: Part III

Sunday, July 09, 2006

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Whatz really good in the blogosphere?

I truly hope that all of you had a great weekend.

What did you do for the weekend? Whatever it was I hope that it was all good and that you enjoyed every minute of it.

My weekend went pretty good. I really cant say that I have any complaints. I mentioned last week that I met someone. Well we have been spending quite a bit of time on the telephone getting to know one another. Things so far have been going pretty good. I mean we are still at that getting to know one another stage, you know what I mean. The conversation is great and he seems to be a really nice person, but I still think that it is too soon to tell. We have actually had 2 dates since the last time I published a post, the 2nd of which was only last night. I have to admit that it went very good (smile). More details to come on how things are going.


Part III of How Ever Many It Takes

Penis Size Myths and Lies

Last week we discussed whether or not size mattered and how and why it mattered if it did. Now dont think that Imma have something related to sex every day jus cause my last three have been related to this topic okay. But as promised, I do want to share with you 10 from a list of 35 of the most common penis size myths and lies.


Here we go!

1. If a small finger can make her climax, then penis size is obviously of no importance. This warped believe needs a little more attention since it is quickly becoming the main defense for those who claim that penis size is irrelevant for vaginal pleasure. It is confusing to many men because they all have experienced how women can climax by just the use of even one finger. So, a penis is ok as long as it is as big as a finger right? Complete nonsense. Many psychologist, sex therapist and so called experts use this gross untruth in a sickening attempt to give the small endowed man temporary relief from his agonizing problems. They forget to mention that the reason a woman can climax with the use of a small finger is because a finger has muscles and two ninety-degree joints in it and you have complete control over it. You move, slide, bend, swirl, thump, palpitate, shake, flick and tickle it like you could never do with a penis and this at any speed you want. The only thing your penis can do is slide in and out at slightly different speeds, at different angles and using less or more pressure against the walls. This is exactly why larger penises cause more fun since at least they reach more places and more spots at the same time. They also have a longer stroke, meaning that a woman's sensitive spots receive more and longer lasting pleasure on the same stroke. Therefore, a longer penis can cause more variety in sensations since the length of stroke is adjustable. A penis the length of a finger can never cause these pleasures. As far as thickness is concerned, by using a small finger you can simulate the pressure sensations from a thick penis by quickly pressing and moving it all around the walls of the vagina opening. You can do dozens of different things with that little finger to make her climax that you could never do with a penis, no matter its size. However, most women agree that the feeling of being penetrated by an average to large penis is always qualitatively superior to the stimulation received from a finger, even if such penetration at times doesn't cause orgasm.

2. The size of the flaccid penis doesn't indicate the size of the erection.

3. The erection is the great equalizer.


4. Some men are growers, others are showers, once hard they are all the same.
These three lies cover the same issue. They are created to give hope to smaller endowed men so they can believe that the competition with larger flaccid penises doesn't have bigger erect penises. Although there are always exceptions, small flaccid penises will be small when erect and large flaccid penises will be large when erect. The "great equalizer" has become such a popular myth that it deserves a special paragraph to explain the truth behind it (see next page Flaccid Penis Size versus Erection).

5. Forget the size issue, the most important sex organ is the brain!
Yes, the most important sex organ is the brain since that's where all the pleasure is processed and experienced. That counts especially for women's pleasure caused by bigger penises!

6. You are ok if you are between 4" and 7" long.
This is a cheap line because they try to make you believe that within this range you will satisfy a woman. All they are saying is that you are ok because there are many of these penises around.

7. The clitoris is outside, the g-spot is two inch inside, so as long as you have two inches length you are fine.

8. A vagina has no pleasure nerves deeper than two inches inside.

9. Women can't feel the difference between a long and a short penis.
These three lies are the creation of those who probably don't have more than two inches themselves, otherwise they would have noticed how women react upon deep stimulation of the vagina. Even if it was true that a vagina feels nothing past the first two inches, longer would still be better because the way your penis stimulates those first two inches of tissue by friction and pressure while sliding over it. The longer your penis is, the longer your stroke, the longer the stimulation of those first two inches.

10. If women like a big penis it is only for psychological reasons.
This myth was invented by some sex therapists who are probably hung like hamsters and who are really talking to themselves. It insults women's sexuality and confuses the smaller endowed men who deep inside know probably better than that.



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Does Size Matter: Part II

Thursday, July 06, 2006
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Part II of How Ever Many It Takes


Okay so today we are going to continue our discussion about the male genitalia in my search for the answer to the age old question, does size really matter? It you missed Part I called Does Size Matter view it here!

Just as I am in search of the answer to this question, my sources tell me that men are just as curious if not more so. They just really wanna know what gives and I cant say that I blame them, cause I wanna know to.

According to the comments from yesterdays post, many feel that size really doesnt matter. For those who did feel that it does matter, thickness or girth seemed to be more important than the length which is a good thing since the average penis size is actually only between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

Women have agreed that the length of the penis does not have as much to do with sexual pleasure as width. The importance of width has to do with stimulating their G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina. Penis girth is significant here since a meatier/thicker penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women love during a sexual experience.


Womenz Preferences Vs Menz

Yesterday I mentioned that women preferred big penises more than men prefer big breasts. The table below illustrates a side by side comparison of these preferrences for women and men.



For today I will just talk about anticipation for sex. I thought this was very interesting because I know that for me, the anticipation of whats to come is such a HUGE turn on.

Think about this. The strong male characteristics that women look for are:
  • square bodylines
  • wide shoulders
  • bigger hands
  • bigger muscles, and...
  • yes, a larger penis.


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It must be subconsciously because I swear this is not what I am thinking about when I am looking at a hottie okay!

Now for men look how long the list is. The strong female characteristics (traits):
  • gentle facial features
  • big eyes (mascara)
  • small nose
  • big lips (lipstick)
  • small jaw and chin
  • small slender neck
  • small shoulders
  • small slender arms and hands
  • big breasts with big nipples
  • small back and small waist
  • relatively big hips and bubble-butt
  • protruding genitals with big engorged inner and outer labia
  • firm curvy legs
  • small slender feet


That enough for today. All this damn talk about penises is making me horny! More to cum in the next post. Have a great day!


Check out this site for more statistics as far as sizes of penises, nipples, erections and the like are concerned: SexualRecords.com



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posted by Superstar Nic at 6:23 AM, | 10 comments

Does Size Matter?

Wednesday, July 05, 2006
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I hope that all of you had a great 4th of July!!!



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I really intended to post this topic on Monday, things just kept preventing me from doing it. I just dont understand why time flies by so fast when you are off from work, but drags when you are there. I just dont get it!

Two of my sisters came here for the long weekend, so there just always seemed to be something going on. We had a very good weekend and my vacation was fabulous. We had one of those famous girlz nite at my place. I just love girlz nite. We just ordered pizza and wings and made some drinky drinks. Im so sad to see it come to an end. The only thing missing is that there was no BBQ. That really sucked! We ended up eating some nasty ass chinese food for the 4th! It was so not even worth the money or the calories. Yuck!!!

The interesting thing is that I met someone this weekend. I went with my sisters to the Moon. Those of you familar with Tallahassee know what Im talking about. I hadnt been there in a while and I started not to go, but I went anyway because I really wanted to hang out with my sisters. While I was there I met this dude. I never give out my number but for some reason I did this time. That was on Saturday and we have been talking nonstop ever since. What this means, who knows, but Im trying to keep an open mind. Oh and he is only 26, about six years younger than me. The telephone conversation is great, but I cant help but wonder what it will be like when I see him in person again. I will keep you post on this one ;-)



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Random Question for Today

Part I of as many as it takes: I will be continuing this discussion based on the comment received and additional information I find.

I havent done this in quite some time, so I thought that it was just about time to do a random question of the day.

The random question for today is:


Does size really matter?

If it matters, how does it matter?... When is big, big enough and when is small too small?... What is sufficient, what is best?...


This comes up because of a web forum/message board that I came across via a link on another persons website. This web forum was called: Women Against Men With Small Penises.

When I first saw this I kinda laughed to myself and thought, they cannot be serious. But when I clicked on the link sure enough, there really was a discussion board full of people discussing this topic.

But having that said, I also wonder about other aspects of sexual attraction and pleasure. For example, does the size of a womans breasts or ass matter to the fellas?






Further Discussion by Nic

Does size really matter?

I think that it can be argued either way. For instance, we have all heard that phrase: its not the size, but its the way that he uses it...

Now is this fact or is it just a myth?

According to my research on the net and surveying my friends and family, yes, size does matter. Many women prefer a man with a large penis. This is not a major news flash for most. The real news flash for me is the reason why? I wanna know why. I mean, I have a very good idea why. Im sure that most of you can guess why, but is there proof? Where is the proof?

When I say size, my primary question is about the size of the male genetalia. Ladies, for you does the size matter? Fellas do you think that it matters to women? Have any of the fellows been told that size matters or have any of the you ladies told a man that size matters?









I was reading this book (dont ask me why –LOL). But according to this book, penis size matters to women even more than breast size matters to men. I could believe that.

The book goes on to mention that there are five big reasons why women prefer large penises that lead all from one into another, and are sometimes not so easy to separate, but they all have to do with pleasure. Go figure right! These reasons go from from instinctive sexual selection to vaginal satisfaction and anything in between.


Tomorrow I will discuss a comparison of the reason/preferences women and men like em big. So make sure you check that out! Also we will talk (maybe not until Friday or Monday) about Penis Size Myths and Lies. This post will discuss a number of the most common penis size myths and lies. One this myths for example is: If a small finger can make a woman have an orgasm then penis size obviously doesnt matter.






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Thought 4 the Day


"The best time for you to hold your tongue
is the time you feel you must say something or bust."


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Whatz Up Bloggers?!?!

Monday, July 03, 2006
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Whatz really good bloggers!

I hope that everyone had a great weekend. My weekend has been fabulous so far, but it aint over as far as Im concerned until Wednesday.

Please be safe this holiday and check me out a little later today. (After Ive had a little nap. Too much partying and staying up late these last few days ;-)





****Stay tuned. This post will be updated!****

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Thought 4 the Day


"The best time for you to hold your tongue
is the time you feel you must say something or bust."



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posted by Superstar Nic at 3:30 AM, | 2 comments