"N" Search of Ecstasy

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I truly hope that all of you had a great weekend.

What did you do for the weekend? Whatever it was I hope that it was all good and that you enjoyed every minute of it.

My weekend went pretty good. I really cant say that I have any complaints. I mentioned last week that I met someone. Well we have been spending quite a bit of time on the telephone getting to know one another. Things so far have been going pretty good. I mean we are still at that getting to know one another stage, you know what I mean. The conversation is great and he seems to be a really nice person, but I still think that it is too soon to tell. We have actually had 2 dates since the last time I published a post, the 2nd of which was only last night. I have to admit that it went very good (smile). More details to come on how things are going.


Part III of How Ever Many It Takes

Penis Size Myths and Lies

Last week we discussed whether or not size mattered and how and why it mattered if it did. Now dont think that Imma have something related to sex every day jus cause my last three have been related to this topic okay. But as promised, I do want to share with you 10 from a list of 35 of the most common penis size myths and lies.

Here we go!

1. If a small finger can make her climax, then penis size is obviously of no importance. This warped believe needs a little more attention since it is quickly becoming the main defense for those who claim that penis size is irrelevant for vaginal pleasure. It is confusing to many men because they all have experienced how women can climax by just the use of even one finger. So, a penis is ok as long as it is as big as a finger right? Complete nonsense. Many psychologist, sex therapist and so called experts use this gross untruth in a sickening attempt to give the small endowed man temporary relief from his agonizing problems. They forget to mention that the reason a woman can climax with the use of a small finger is because a finger has muscles and two ninety-degree joints in it and you have complete control over it. You move, slide, bend, swirl, thump, palpitate, shake, flick and tickle it like you could never do with a penis and this at any speed you want. The only thing your penis can do is slide in and out at slightly different speeds, at different angles and using less or more pressure against the walls. This is exactly why larger penises cause more fun since at least they reach more places and more spots at the same time. They also have a longer stroke, meaning that a woman's sensitive spots receive more and longer lasting pleasure on the same stroke. Therefore, a longer penis can cause more variety in sensations since the length of stroke is adjustable. A penis the length of a finger can never cause these pleasures. As far as thickness is concerned, by using a small finger you can simulate the pressure sensations from a thick penis by quickly pressing and moving it all around the walls of the vagina opening. You can do dozens of different things with that little finger to make her climax that you could never do with a penis, no matter its size. However, most women agree that the feeling of being penetrated by an average to large penis is always qualitatively superior to the stimulation received from a finger, even if such penetration at times doesn't cause orgasm.

2. The size of the flaccid penis doesn't indicate the size of the erection.

3. The erection is the great equalizer.

4. Some men are growers, others are showers, once hard they are all the same.
These three lies cover the same issue. They are created to give hope to smaller endowed men so they can believe that the competition with larger flaccid penises doesn't have bigger erect penises. Although there are always exceptions, small flaccid penises will be small when erect and large flaccid penises will be large when erect. The "great equalizer" has become such a popular myth that it deserves a special paragraph to explain the truth behind it (see next page Flaccid Penis Size versus Erection).

5. Forget the size issue, the most important sex organ is the brain!
Yes, the most important sex organ is the brain since that's where all the pleasure is processed and experienced. That counts especially for women's pleasure caused by bigger penises!

6. You are ok if you are between 4" and 7" long.
This is a cheap line because they try to make you believe that within this range you will satisfy a woman. All they are saying is that you are ok because there are many of these penises around.

7. The clitoris is outside, the g-spot is two inch inside, so as long as you have two inches length you are fine.

8. A vagina has no pleasure nerves deeper than two inches inside.

9. Women can't feel the difference between a long and a short penis.
These three lies are the creation of those who probably don't have more than two inches themselves, otherwise they would have noticed how women react upon deep stimulation of the vagina. Even if it was true that a vagina feels nothing past the first two inches, longer would still be better because the way your penis stimulates those first two inches of tissue by friction and pressure while sliding over it. The longer your penis is, the longer your stroke, the longer the stimulation of those first two inches.

10. If women like a big penis it is only for psychological reasons.
This myth was invented by some sex therapists who are probably hung like hamsters and who are really talking to themselves. It insults women's sexuality and confuses the smaller endowed men who deep inside know probably better than that.