Today’s Question and Stuff
Wednesday, November 16, 2005
~Sigh~
Well, it’s hump day and I’ve almost made it through another week. Ooooh and next week I only work a day and half cause of the Thanksgiving holiday! YES…..I thought about trying to come up with something really interesting to talk about, but I’m at a loss. Can you believe that? Me, with my big mouth self can’t come up with something to talk about? Hmmmmmm...........
Anyhoo, what I decided to do is just discuss the question I heard on the Doug Bank’s Morning Radio show. The question for the day was something like this:
“If your significant other or spouse, were heavily into porn (either magazines or video) and/or visited strip clubs ‘quite’ frequently, would this cause a break down in your relationship? Why or why not?
For me, I think that it would depend on whether or not he preferred that over me. I mean, me and my boo will occasionally chill out and watch pornos together sometimes, so that doesn’t bother me. I don’t want to be doing that all the time and I think that it would only bother me, if “I” was not ENOUGH to turn him on without him NEEDING to have that to ‘get in the mood’.
Now the strip clubs on the other hand, I think they would affect me more because the hoes are right there shaking their ass and he could actually touch them if he wanted to. But even with that, I know females that will go to the strip clubs with their man to. I haven’t ventured out that far (yet) and I can’t even say for sure right about now how I would feel about going. I can say this though, if he asked me to, I would.
Would it be ‘frequently’? HELL NO and he don’t need to be taking his ass frequently either!!!!!!
I guess the real truth is coming outta me now.
How do you feel about it?
♥♠~~Idle Chatter: Nothing Special About It~~♠♥
"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"
Well, it’s hump day and I’ve almost made it through another week. Ooooh and next week I only work a day and half cause of the Thanksgiving holiday! YES…..I thought about trying to come up with something really interesting to talk about, but I’m at a loss. Can you believe that? Me, with my big mouth self can’t come up with something to talk about? Hmmmmmm...........
Anyhoo, what I decided to do is just discuss the question I heard on the Doug Bank’s Morning Radio show. The question for the day was something like this:
“If your significant other or spouse, were heavily into porn (either magazines or video) and/or visited strip clubs ‘quite’ frequently, would this cause a break down in your relationship? Why or why not?
For me, I think that it would depend on whether or not he preferred that over me. I mean, me and my boo will occasionally chill out and watch pornos together sometimes, so that doesn’t bother me. I don’t want to be doing that all the time and I think that it would only bother me, if “I” was not ENOUGH to turn him on without him NEEDING to have that to ‘get in the mood’.
Now the strip clubs on the other hand, I think they would affect me more because the hoes are right there shaking their ass and he could actually touch them if he wanted to. But even with that, I know females that will go to the strip clubs with their man to. I haven’t ventured out that far (yet) and I can’t even say for sure right about now how I would feel about going. I can say this though, if he asked me to, I would.
Would it be ‘frequently’? HELL NO and he don’t need to be taking his ass frequently either!!!!!!
I guess the real truth is coming outta me now.
How do you feel about it?
♥♠~~Idle Chatter: Nothing Special About It~~♠♥
This morning, the alarm goes off and I slam my hand on the alarm as hard as I could without breaking the damn thing. So, I snooze for another nine minutes and then there it goes again. Dammit. At this point I’m there thinking should I exercise today or no. Exercise or no, exercise or no? After this contemplation, I go ahead and get up to get ready to go walking. I’m dressed and ready to go; I grabbed my MP3 player and headed out the door. Less than 2 minutes into it, I’m like damn I don’t feel like this shit today, but I continue on. I’m walking along listening to my lil music and I’m about ¾ of the way to that point where I would turn around to head back home. I stopped at the corner because I saw a bus coming. So I’m standing there not realizing that he was about to take me out one day short of my B-Day. This no-driving ass muthafugger is all up on the curb about to kill me so I got scared and start trying to back up, when I twisted my ankle, and damn near fell and broke my neck. I’m like see, that’s why I need to just go home! But I didn’t. I kept on.
As I walked, I’m noticing that my curls are steadily falling. You see, I’ve been wearing my hair with twist up the back and rodded in the top with the curls framing my face. The more I walked, the more the curls fell and I’m like, a sista can’t win for losing with this exercise BS. By the time I got back home I looked like a wet puppy! Dammit!!!!!
I was so damned aggravated about that. But I digress. Went to work and work was fine. I actually got some stuff accomplished today to!
I came home and started dinner immediately (curry chicken). Then I poured myself a glass of Zinfandel and headed to the bathroom to do something about this hair so I can look decent tomorrow. ~Sigh~
I just finished eating my din din. So, now I’m just sitting here thinking. I’m thinking about tomorrow. How will I feel when I wake up? Will I feel older? Will I be happy? Who knows, but I’ll be finding out very soon won’t I (smile).
Anywayz, until tomorrow my friends, Tootle Loo!
Nicoletta ~ N Search of Ecstasy
As I walked, I’m noticing that my curls are steadily falling. You see, I’ve been wearing my hair with twist up the back and rodded in the top with the curls framing my face. The more I walked, the more the curls fell and I’m like, a sista can’t win for losing with this exercise BS. By the time I got back home I looked like a wet puppy! Dammit!!!!!
I was so damned aggravated about that. But I digress. Went to work and work was fine. I actually got some stuff accomplished today to!
I came home and started dinner immediately (curry chicken). Then I poured myself a glass of Zinfandel and headed to the bathroom to do something about this hair so I can look decent tomorrow. ~Sigh~
I just finished eating my din din. So, now I’m just sitting here thinking. I’m thinking about tomorrow. How will I feel when I wake up? Will I feel older? Will I be happy? Who knows, but I’ll be finding out very soon won’t I (smile).
Anywayz, until tomorrow my friends, Tootle Loo!
Nicoletta ~ N Search of Ecstasy
"If you see someone without a smile today, give them one of yours!"
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I'm thinkin maybe no on the stip club porn adventure. Let me think about it. It depends who it is and what the flow of the household income is.
How foolish of me, I feel like Ashanti's Eyebrows...
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Happy Early birthday, today is my AUNTIES B-day 2!
The near death experience...you live you learn girl...start wearing wigs
My significant other is heavily into black porn. He loves the female body. He goes to this website online called booty talk and looks at girls and buys videos. I have watched with him every once in a while but it does not effect of relationship or sex life. I don't like the strip club thing (and I have been) because I think it is a waste of money and those girls don't do anything that I don't do.