Do You Talk Dirty?
Friday, February 03, 2006
Well…..do you?For some folks, dirty talk during sex is taboo or uncomfortable. I was talking to someone we’ll call “Conservtive Banker” before I posted this and she seemed liked she thought it was disgusting. But then for others, the hotter and dirtier the talk the better.
“Conservtive Banker” also says that she does not like her butt smacked because it is not sexy or erotic. Me personally, I like it as long as it not to hard. I like gentle love taps, LOL. I can’t help but to like it. Shoot he will do it at given moment, any time of the day. He just likes to touch it.
So what are your thoughts on hot sexy talk in bed? What do you like to be called, what words do you like to use in bed? Don’t be shy. Tell me.
My boo likes it when I call him daddy (smile). I’m not sure why men tend to like that, but he does. We also do a lot of dirty talking on the phone, especially when we are both at work. We are just crazy like that.
For me, I like for him to tell me how good it is and how much he likes it. When he calls me by my “real” instead of my nick name, that’s when I know it’s REALLY good!
Tell me. I’m curious to know what it is that makes your soldier salute? What is it that gets your juices flowing?
I’ll post my the rest of my answers in the comments section little later after I’ve had a chance to think about it some more, so make sure you check back! It’s getting late and I need to take my ass to bed. I have another long day at a boring Regional Evaluation Conference, so I need all the rest I can get.
And don’t forget to Go Red For Women!
This is Superstar Nic
Still "N" Search of Ecstasy and I'm out!
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MAN! I forgot my red!!!! Shoot!
Well for me, it depends on the person I am dealing with. There is one guy that can get rough at times and he'll talk mad ish while he is working and it drive me nutz (in a good way), he'd choke me (stop looking at me like that, it's not how your thinking) and be very dominant and it's such a turn on!
But another friend tried it and it just didn't work for me!
So it really depends.....
OHOHOHOHOH! The ultimate is when it is getting really good and the tempo is kinda slow, he's waaaay down in it, and he bends down and whispers my name in my damn ear! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WEEEEEE! LOVE IT!
And don't get that brotha growling! mmm mmm mmm Okay I think I think my mojo is back from it's vacation!
Well for me, it depends on the person I am dealing with. There is one guy that can get rough at times and he'll talk mad ish while he is working and it drive me nutz (in a good way), he'd choke me (stop looking at me like that, it's not how your thinking) and be very dominant and it's such a turn on!
But another friend tried it and it just didn't work for me!
So it really depends.....
OHOHOHOHOH! The ultimate is when it is getting really good and the tempo is kinda slow, he's waaaay down in it, and he bends down and whispers my name in my damn ear! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WEEEEEE! LOVE IT!
And don't get that brotha growling! mmm mmm mmm Okay I think I think my mojo is back from it's vacation!
i don't say anything either... pretty much anything turns me on nowadays!!! ;)
i dont talk that much in bed.. just "i love you" "i love it" but i loved to have my ass smacked!! him talking to me is cool... as long as he's not talking the whole way through! use of profanity w/ my name lets me know its good to him!
I use to be so conservative then someone said that they couldn't tell if it was good or bad cause I wasn't responding. So I have since learned to voice how I feel and what I want. Makes it a whole lot better..good post.
I like to be talked to somewhat...a few words then Im gonna need him to shut the hell up...lol
I forgot about the day, but I'm wearing red anyway. LOL
I know it's good when he's softly saying, "I looove you, LaaLaa!" I'll say, "Give me my big fat ____!" or "I'm your B!" This drives him crazy!
If he really says anything else, I can't tell cause I'm in a different world. But it is such a turn on when he's just about to and then I speed up and he can't speak!
Is this TMI?
I know it's good when he's softly saying, "I looove you, LaaLaa!" I'll say, "Give me my big fat ____!" or "I'm your B!" This drives him crazy!
If he really says anything else, I can't tell cause I'm in a different world. But it is such a turn on when he's just about to and then I speed up and he can't speak!
Is this TMI?
I find that dirty talk gets me in the mood. The dude that I have had the best sex with ever we use to talk dirty all the time. It made the sex hotter.
Nneka you are sounding just like the “Conservative Banker”.
LadyNay LMAO…Girl you know that my eyes got big as hell when I saw that “choking”. OMG! Let me continue to read what you said. I love the whispering in the ear to.
Koolbreeze I understand mama.
TTD I don’t actually talk “a lot”, but I do talk. Do ask me what I say, cause hell I can’t even remember.
Honey Good for you girl!
Yazmar LMAO, I’m completely feeling you on that!
LaaLaa Glad you got ya red on. It’s never TMI, hahahaha. Girl I’m all up in it!
Miz JJIt get me in the mood to. That’s why will we sometimes have these little dirty conversations during the day about what we are going to do that nite. It has me ready!
Supa Sis LOL, I know that’s right!
Southern Gal Girl me to, LOL.
Great comments ladies!
LadyNay LMAO…Girl you know that my eyes got big as hell when I saw that “choking”. OMG! Let me continue to read what you said. I love the whispering in the ear to.
Koolbreeze I understand mama.
TTD I don’t actually talk “a lot”, but I do talk. Do ask me what I say, cause hell I can’t even remember.
Honey Good for you girl!
Yazmar LMAO, I’m completely feeling you on that!
LaaLaa Glad you got ya red on. It’s never TMI, hahahaha. Girl I’m all up in it!
Miz JJIt get me in the mood to. That’s why will we sometimes have these little dirty conversations during the day about what we are going to do that nite. It has me ready!
Supa Sis LOL, I know that’s right!
Southern Gal Girl me to, LOL.
Great comments ladies!
What are you doing off young lady?..lol.
Girl I love talking about sex. My friends have to tell me to shut up sometimes...I have always had a dirty mind..lol.
The irony is, I don't own any pornography. Crazy. I am a prude when it comes to stuff like that.
Girl I love talking about sex. My friends have to tell me to shut up sometimes...I have always had a dirty mind..lol.
The irony is, I don't own any pornography. Crazy. I am a prude when it comes to stuff like that.
GPHaha, girl I got off early because I was at a conference today and they let us go at 3p. YES!!!
You .... a prude. I never would have thought!
As for the porno, girl I have plenty of it, both DVDs and VHS, take your pic honey. I used to have erotic books to, but I have gotten to the point where I don't like to read now.
Nikki girl you are crazy. That is funny as hell. The dude that wasn’t used to talking like that, LOL. Girl I can only imagine how he was sounding. And yes I love the smacking and rubbing of the ass.
You .... a prude. I never would have thought!
As for the porno, girl I have plenty of it, both DVDs and VHS, take your pic honey. I used to have erotic books to, but I have gotten to the point where I don't like to read now.
Nikki girl you are crazy. That is funny as hell. The dude that wasn’t used to talking like that, LOL. Girl I can only imagine how he was sounding. And yes I love the smacking and rubbing of the ass.
oooh let me comment b4 I even read anyone else comments....
Talking dirty makes the shit better when I'm in the zone! And when my baby can't even get his words out...oooh.
Quincy (he's sitting behind me and I'm reading out loud so this is a response from both of us) says talking dirty is erotic and brings out the passion
Our choice words are:
cussing (MF goes down nicely)
and smacking has to be gentle for me...too hard turns me off - my mind goes to the whole I'm more powerful than you thing.
ok I'll be back let me read comments
Talking dirty makes the shit better when I'm in the zone! And when my baby can't even get his words out...oooh.
Quincy (he's sitting behind me and I'm reading out loud so this is a response from both of us) says talking dirty is erotic and brings out the passion
Our choice words are:
cussing (MF goes down nicely)
and smacking has to be gentle for me...too hard turns me off - my mind goes to the whole I'm more powerful than you thing.
ok I'll be back let me read comments
LOL @ Laalaa and can't say I've been choked :)
GP stop!! I don't believe it!!!!
And yeah I'm made him growl on occasion :)
And when it gets to that whole Give it me vibe.....its on!!!!
GP stop!! I don't believe it!!!!
And yeah I'm made him growl on occasion :)
And when it gets to that whole Give it me vibe.....its on!!!!
Mwabi LOL, yes the smacking has to be soft. Like I said, I like gentle love taps. If he hit me too hard, I will definitely let him know.
Viperteq No, I don’t do the "b!tches" and "h0es" routine either. To each its own, but that will probably take me right outta the zone if he started that shit. Talking to you in a foreign language huh, interesting.
BossMack I’m LMAO. You choke ‘em?!?!?!?! I can’t do that. I would like pass out!
Viperteq No, I don’t do the "b!tches" and "h0es" routine either. To each its own, but that will probably take me right outta the zone if he started that shit. Talking to you in a foreign language huh, interesting.
BossMack I’m LMAO. You choke ‘em?!?!?!?! I can’t do that. I would like pass out!
Mwabi I find that hard to believe about GP to. I can’t imagine her being a prude about anything!
Yeah I talk real dirty. it takes it to another level
Stone I completely agree, it does take it to another level and it takes me over the top. I love it!
I have not been here in a while...and this is just the right topic to come back to.
I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE to talk shit. I think that's my calling..lol I will curse a mutha out in the sack, like he is my worst enemy...
Dirty words of choice:
-F^ck u, u big d^ck mutha f^cka
-Who takes it the best?
-Give me that c^m!
There is more, but I think I should stop.
Great Post
I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE to talk shit. I think that's my calling..lol I will curse a mutha out in the sack, like he is my worst enemy...
Dirty words of choice:
-F^ck u, u big d^ck mutha f^cka
-Who takes it the best?
-Give me that c^m!
There is more, but I think I should stop.
Great Post
I like it when he puts his finger inside of me then takes it out and sucks it off.....hmmmmmm that just turns me onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!
I like the dirty talk to, just don't go overboard! I love to hear him call my name when he cums! *wink*
Good post!
~Smooches~
I like the dirty talk to, just don't go overboard! I love to hear him call my name when he cums! *wink*
Good post!
~Smooches~
Wow!
Well, there was one dude who was fairly mild-mannered in public. But back home, when we started to bone, he became all dominant, started grabbing me up, biting my neck, ripping my clothes off and talking some ol' hot and wild sh*t in my ear! Now at first I was scurred. Then when I realized he wasnt gonna cut me into little pieces and leave me under the highway, I was was EXTREMELY turned on. He is a teacher, too. I always wondered what his kids would think if they heard him talking about, "whose p*ssy is this!?!?" "This right here is mine!!!"
...d*mn freak!
(I must be a freak too if I liked it, though Huh?)
:-P
Well, there was one dude who was fairly mild-mannered in public. But back home, when we started to bone, he became all dominant, started grabbing me up, biting my neck, ripping my clothes off and talking some ol' hot and wild sh*t in my ear! Now at first I was scurred. Then when I realized he wasnt gonna cut me into little pieces and leave me under the highway, I was was EXTREMELY turned on. He is a teacher, too. I always wondered what his kids would think if they heard him talking about, "whose p*ssy is this!?!?" "This right here is mine!!!"
...d*mn freak!
(I must be a freak too if I liked it, though Huh?)
:-P
Oh and spanking with an open hand is always good, but it has to be with full consent, or dude WILL get kicked in the nuts
:-o
:-o
anything that keeps me going is *thumbs up*. I'm one of those talkers...but I have my quiet "this is passionate" moments too. :)
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the verbal back and forth is the shit when it's the right person. it makes it just that much better. quiet chicks don't do anything for me.
Shhhh! *And he begins to whisper "I like really agressive talk. someone to tell me what to do and how to do it, a bit demanding." But don't tell anyone.
Me.
Me.
PowerPink I see that you are definitely a talker and you are very comfortable with yourself and your sexuality. That's great!
Bajan Q now that finger thing is some sexy ass shit!
Niki my babe is quiet like that in public to. People would not believe that he is really a closet freak!
Courtney anything that can keep me going is definitely a thumbs up to!
Miguel - I feel ya. Being quiet to me means that your are not enjoying yourself or that you are uncomfortable.
Reg I won't tell anyone (smile).
Bajan Q now that finger thing is some sexy ass shit!
Niki my babe is quiet like that in public to. People would not believe that he is really a closet freak!
Courtney anything that can keep me going is definitely a thumbs up to!
Miguel - I feel ya. Being quiet to me means that your are not enjoying yourself or that you are uncomfortable.
Reg I won't tell anyone (smile).
Mel you prefer gay male porn? I'd like to hear more about why you prefer that. I agree that talking afterwords is good for me to. Alot of times we'll talk about it the next day on the phone (smile).
i need a whole buncha talking going on....
tell me what i'm doing right...i mean, I already know...but telling me is so sexy
tell me what i'm doing right...i mean, I already know...but telling me is so sexy
Diamonds that it is so true. It turns me on even more for him to tell me what I'm doing right (smile).
I'm dizzy.
Anywho, the melodic sound of certain words tends to heighten the various stages of arousal. Since intercourse is a spiritual, emotional, and lastly, physical state of being, then we of course need to see:
Physical: The slapping sounds and views of the actual act. Listen to the song "When 2 R N Love, by Prince" That alone brings up verbal thoughts.
Mental: The sensations that arouse from being completely exposed in the most vulnerable way, tends to bring verbal images.
Spiritual: The ultimate connectivity that comes from this type of attachment, also triggers verbal images.
Now that I've gotten the clinical interests out the way.
Hell YEAH!! . .with some durty, durty talk, that pretty much makes it a done deal for me! That nastiness, coupled with the slapping sounds, the smells, the intense breathing, the increased arousal, the physical viewpoints,
Okay, I gotta go, this is not a good thing for me being at work now. . .
I'm dizzy.
PS: The last two letters in my word verification is fu. Is somebody playing a sick joke on me?
Is somebody playing games with me. I'm dizzy.
Good Post.
Supa: You'z a fool. . .
Anywho, the melodic sound of certain words tends to heighten the various stages of arousal. Since intercourse is a spiritual, emotional, and lastly, physical state of being, then we of course need to see:
Physical: The slapping sounds and views of the actual act. Listen to the song "When 2 R N Love, by Prince" That alone brings up verbal thoughts.
Mental: The sensations that arouse from being completely exposed in the most vulnerable way, tends to bring verbal images.
Spiritual: The ultimate connectivity that comes from this type of attachment, also triggers verbal images.
Now that I've gotten the clinical interests out the way.
Hell YEAH!! . .with some durty, durty talk, that pretty much makes it a done deal for me! That nastiness, coupled with the slapping sounds, the smells, the intense breathing, the increased arousal, the physical viewpoints,
Okay, I gotta go, this is not a good thing for me being at work now. . .
I'm dizzy.
PS: The last two letters in my word verification is fu. Is somebody playing a sick joke on me?
Is somebody playing games with me. I'm dizzy.
Good Post.
Supa: You'z a fool. . .
P -- I think I need a cigarette after reading your comment and I don't even smoke!
GREAT COMMENT
GREAT COMMENT
Hmm me talking in bed i think it has to be real real real good, for me to actually talk to the person.