It's Almost Friday Baby
Well as you can see, I survived the storm. Nope it didnt blow me away ;-) Alberto wasnt nearly as bad as it could have been. It never made it to full hurricane strength although it did hover just below for the longest time. Thankfully when it made landfall near here it was on a tropical storm and not a hurricane! We in the Big Bend Area have dodged a bullet once again.
The weather is supposedly pretty bad in and around the Carolinas. I heard that there were about six small tornadoes were reported in South Carolina. I read that one was in downtown Charleston that busting out car windows during the evening rush hour traffic Tuesday. Can you imagine that shit? I probably would have had a damn heart attack right there in the damn car. Another one of the tornados caused some injuries, but I don't know how serious.
I hope that everything is okay up by where LadyNay is!
Question of the Day
We all know the "standard" code of dating friends/relatives ex"s right. Well I have a question for you.
If you are to meet someone that is interested in you, but they went out with a friend/sibling/other relative of yours for a short period of time - lets say a month max SEVERAL years ago, at five years ago. They may have had sex, but you do not know this for certain.
Other pieces of the equation are that this person is very well off now with much cash to spare, for example they were an entertainer or pro sports player and they are very attractive.
Tell how would you honestly deal with this situation. What would you do?
Do you pursue it?
Tell your friend/sibling/other relative?
Many women that I know do not date men that have been with a friend or relative of theirs, but is this the same standard in men? Brothers help me out. For that matter is it this really the standard for women?
For me, I would say that I am the type that would not date anyone that has been with a friend/sibling/other relative of mine. But having that said, being that I'm single with no children and a woman that hopes to get married some day, would I be ruling out my potential husband by closing this door.
Do you really pass up the opportunity to be with someone that could potentially be your soulmate because they once dated someone in your circle?
Let me know!
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14 Comments:
Thanks for the comment!
as for the question of the day, i think it depends on how serious the relationship had been with my relative. if they were engaged at one time or dated for more than a year, i won't do it. if it was casual or they were only fuck buddies, i'm down.
If she did my friend or family wrong I'd avoid her like the plague on general principle.
If part of me even considered the possibility I'd ask the person if he had a problem with me pursuing her. That's usually a formality because if you've been around someone long enough you should already have a general idea of how they'd react. Of course there's always room for surprises so I ask. If he even hesitates in giving the answer it's a no go. Like I said too many women out there to lose a friendship over dating someone's ex.
I never thought of dating someone who's dated a family member or friend.
I for one, wouldnt date anybody I used to know anybody close to me.....i know shit happens, but shit also can be prevented. I dont think its cool for any of my girls to pursue my ex's(although i cant say anyting good about them).....I just feel its too many men out there.
Chocolate Drop out!
She's off limits, it can only lead to hurt feelings down the line. Or maybe I just say that cuz my friends and I have different types.
If your friend still has feelings for them that is a line I would not cross.
If a friend totally played someone I developed feelings for....and it was several years ago...I say why not.